If romance is the essence of wine, and wine is the heart of Napa Valley, then Wine + Napa + Wedding Proposal = Pure Perfection.
This is probably why people have been getting engaged in Napa for ages. Maybe even since the first winery set up shop here in 1861.
But that doesn’t mean your proposal should be cliché. When you’re making a proposal in Napa Valley, you have to make this moment utterly and unequivocally YOU. By putting your own spin on one of these unique Napa Valley wedding proposals, you can create an unforgettable experience.
Napa Scavenger Hunt
Everyone loves a good scavenger hunt, especially when it ends with a ring. This idea is highly customizable, but here are some loose guidelines you can follow.
- Make plans with your partner to spend the day together touring the Napa Valley. You’ll uncover clues together along the way that will lead you to your next destination.
- Relate each destination to your relationship and incorporate this into your clue. For example, the clue for a visit to Charles Krug Winery may be something like this: “Much like our relationship, this next destination has proven to stand the test of time. Other wineries have come and gone, but this one holds strong and is the oldest operating winery in the Napa Valley.”
- Email clues to someone at each winery you plan to visit. The designated person can read the clue to you and your spouse-to-be when you arrive.
- Keep a wine journal along the way. This is a moment to be remembered. Save your clues along with wine labels and tasting notes in a wine journal. You can go back and add pictures from the day later.
The scavenger hunt in this video sends the bride-to-be on a day of pampering with her good friends and eventually leads her to her proposal. If you choose to go this route, you will likely need to enlist the help of friends or family to keep your partner on task.
Embark on an Exciting Moped Tour
What’s more romantic that a bicycle built for two? How about a moped? Plan out each stop to ensure the day goes off without a hitch, but the real surprise, the ring, will be placed in her helmet before you even set out on your adventure.
This video illustrates what it’s like to be behind the wheel of a moped, riding around Napa Valley. It’s beautiful, exhilarating and romantic. Just like your love.
Photobomb Proposal
If you’re a bit of a prankster, this proposal idea is perfect for you. Here’s how it’s done. Plan to go to dinner at a romantic restaurant, preferably somewhere warm and inviting like Celadon or the French Laundry. But before you go, coordinate your proposal with the staff. Here’s how it’ll go down.
- Ask the server to take your picture at some point during dinner. This works best with a polaroid, but it can also work with any phone or digital camera.
- Squeeze close together and smile for the camera. While you’re posing, another server will hold up a “Marry me?” sign behind you. Ideally, the server won’t actually be in the picture. If you’re sitting, he may kneel to hold the sign above your heads. If you’re standing, he may duck and hold the sign up or to the side.
- Ask your partner to check the picture, or have the waiter ask for you. Imagine her surprise when she sees the well-planned photobomb. As she picks her jaw up off the floor, you will be there presenting her with a ring.
Scenic Spot Proposal
Just about anywhere you turn in Napa, you’ll find a scenic spot that’s worthy of being the backdrop to your proposal. So, there’s no need of overthink this one. If you’re at a loss, consider Castello di Amorosa or a hike at Westwood Hills Park. Now, it’s time to put a fun spin on this classic proposal. Here’s an idea:
- Visit the spot with a friend before the big day.
- Have your friend take pictures of you holding up three signs one at a time. The first says, “Will.” The next says, “you.” And the third “Marry me?” sign is the one that drives your message home.
- Plan to meet her at this exact spot. When she gets there, text her the images one at a time while you’re standing in a nearby yet out of sight spot. Walk towards her as you text the last image and bend down on one knee before her.
A Kite Proposal
Plan to spend the day frolicking through the fields with a kite and the one you love. Get her attention as your kite goes soaring through the air with the words, “Will you marry me?” written on the kite’s underside. Consider this one a more intimate twist on the old sky writing proposal.
And here’s another fun idea. The video below shows a sweet wedding proposal while kite boarding:
The Unforgettable Experience
A visit to Napa Valley in itself is unforgettable, but there are a few excursions that can really leave an indelible mark on your memory. Plan an intimate moment doing something extraordinary and top the day off with a wedding proposal. Here are some ideas:
- Sommelier for a day at Raymond Vineyards – Immerse yourself in wine culture while blending your own wine and making your own wine label.
- Crazy Creek Air Adventures – Take in panoramic views of the Napa Valley as you soar through the air in an exhilarating glider plane ride.
- Grgich Hills Grape Stomping – If the idea of jumping into a barrel of freshly-picked grapes sounds like fun, you and your partner will love the grape stomping harvest adventure at Grgich Hills.
Whether you want your proposal to be one-of-a-kind or just an unforgettable experience, the wine country is the perfect backdrop. Use the ideas here or plan your own uniquely personal event.
8) Propose At Her Favorite Winery
Proposing at your partner’s favorite winery can be an incredibly romantic and memorable experience. To make this momentous occasion even more special, consider the following:
- Choose a winery that holds special meaning for your partner.
- Contact the winery in advance to plan a romantic proposal.
- Include elements that hold sentimental value for you and your partner.
- Hire a photographer or videographer to capture the moment.
- Propose in a way that is genuine and heartfelt.
This unique and personalized proposal will undoubtedly leave a lasting impression and create memories that will be cherished forever. Just be sure you brush up on your wine-tasting etiquette.
Conclusion: How To Make Your Proposal Truly Special In Napa
Napa Valley is a great choice if you’re looking for a picturesque location to propose to your partner.
You can make your proposal unique and special by putting your own spin on one of these eight ideas. A romantic scavenger hunt, a hot air balloon ride, a moped tour, a clever photobomb, a surprise in a scenic location, a kite with words of love, or an adventure in wine country all provide endless opportunities for creating unforgettable memories.
Consider proposing at your partner’s favorite winery if you want to add an extra sentimental touch. With careful planning and personal touches, your proposal will be heartfelt and genuine.
Napa Valley’s beauty and creativity will make it a cherished moment in your love story. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness and unforgettable memories!
Frequently Asked Questions
Does a Proposal Need to Be Special?
A proposal is a significant moment in a couple’s life, so it should be special. That doesn’t mean it needs to be extravagant or a public spectacle. What matters most is that it reflects your love and commitment to one another. Understanding your partner’s desires, putting thought into every detail, and creating lasting memories can make it more meaningful.
What Do You Say When Proposing?
- Tell them the moment you realized they were the one for you.
- Tell them how they’ve changed your life for the better.
- Free-write the reasons you love them.
- Say what you love most about them.
- Reminisce about your relationship.
- End with the four famous words (“Will you marry me?”).
You can also use your partner’s full name (first, middle, and last) to make it more romantic.
How Do You Propose in a Winery?
Choose a winery that suits your partner’s preferences, plan for a private moment, and consider booking a wine tasting. It may make sense to let the winery know in advance, if their help is needed in order to help set the moment up. We also suggest you hire a discreet photographer to capture the moment and celebrate with a bottle of sparkling wine or champagne. It will be an unforgettable experience.